In a few weeks I’m moving across the country—from a 1,400 sq. ft. house to a 900 sq. ft. apartment. Though I consider myself generally minimalist, my little family has lived in our home for almost four years, and some things... and stuff... and crap... have naturally accumulated over time. Now it’s time to downsize—to reevaluate what does and does not “make the move.”
At first it felt like a huge chore, like a million small yet annoying and potentially-backfiring-on-me decisions to make. But I shifted my mindset, and now I’m really excited about it. I’ve realized that moving is an opportunity to uplevel: to reassess what I own and edit out anything that no longer fits my life (or the new chapter I’m about to begin).
This is a chance to re-evaluate my wardrobe, my kitchen appliances and utensils—even my precious books.
Here are some things to remember as you pare down for a move:
Put another way: You get to move only your best stuff! This is permission to get rid of, say, that piece of cheap-ish fiberboard furniture you bought years ago for some weirdly specific use and have just been dragging along with you ever since. Or your old towel set that you kept even after you bought some new ones. Or your third set of measuring cups. You’ll know the unnecessaries when you see them.
This is permission to just let go of things you’ve been holding onto out of obligation, or have simply been holding onto without much thought.
Forget “sparking joy”—is this thing worth hauling across the country? Does it earn its keep enough to pack it, transport it, unpack it, then find a place for it in your new space?
Do you have multiples of it? Is it worn out, or has it been unused for more than a year? Does it have a place in your new home/chapter? Paring down now will save you time (and space) later. And if you’re struggling to part with an object of nostalgic value, remember: You can keep the memory without keeping the object.
You’re not just throwing this stuff away (...right?!). You can sell things if you need/want some extra money for the move, or simply donate them if you’re just done with them. That’s my preferred method.
I also take comfort in knowing that all the items I’m donating are going to someone else who really does need and want them—it makes it easier for me to part with them, too.
When I get rid of something practical, I start a running list (or even more efficient: an Amazon shopping cart) of things I’ll need when I get to my new home. Whether it’s a new broom, laundry detergent, a tupperware set, or nicer hangers (just to name a few), I don’t have to remember everything—but they don’t get forgotten either—and I can hit the ground running with new household essentials once I get to my new place.
Liz Johnson is the creative director at Braid Creative, and is currently based in Durham, NC.
Do you have any other tips for paring down or making a move more efficient? Share below in the comments!