Laundry

This Is the Secret to Removing Your Peskiest Stain

Just spritzing stain treater on the spot will not do it.

March 14, 2022
Photo by Julia Gartland

Treating stains is an art. Magazine and website articles offer recipes for exactly how to treat each type of stain (I’ve written some myself) and whole books have been written on the subject of laundry. Meanwhile, a photo of Martha Stewart’s laundry room reveals ten (!) supplementary stain-removing solutions—and that is not counting her main detergent. But all those careful instructions and specialty products are all for naught if you do not employ what I believe is the most important thing: patience.

Most people give up on stains too quickly! Patience and persistence are the true secrets to laundry success. In our fast-paced lives, it’s easy to think that to treat a stain is you just spritz some stain treater on the spot and then toss the garment in the wash. But the enzymes and other active ingredients in stain treatments and detergents need time to do their work. In fact, if you read the labels, most will tell you they need at least 15 minutes to sit on the stain before laundering to be effective. However, that recommended time on the label is a fraction of the time it may actually take to properly tackle a tough stain.

Writing in her book Home Comforts: The Art and Science of Keeping House, Cheryl Mednelson advises, “Some stains will respond gradually, so you will have to apply your remedy half a dozen times before you are completely successful. You may need all your patience.” Six rounds of stain treating may sound extreme, but if it saves a favorite garment or table linen, I’d say it’s worth the effort.

I should mention that you should not try to treat dry-clean-only garments at home. Rush those over to your dry cleaner ASAP. For anything you regularly launder yourself, instead of just spraying the product on and hoping for the best, try my patience-forward method. First soak the garment in cool water for half an hour, then work the stain treatment (or liquid laundry detergent) into the stain and let it sit for another 30 to 60 minutes. Next, gently scrub at the stain with an old, soft-bristle toothbrush and rinse. Examine the stain: If it hasn’t budged much, repeat. If it’s mostly gone, go ahead and move onto laundering, again in cool water. Do not let the stained fabric dry out between washings!

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“I used cold water, a Laundress stain bar and a soft toothbrush to try and remove it. The stain was the size of half a nickel. It looked like it was removed to me so I dried the pants in the dryer. He insisted that the stain was still there after that. So he poured The Laundress Stain Solution (not the bar) all over it and scrubbed about an area of 6 inches over and around the (nonexistent) stain, with a scrub brush and told me not to touch it. So, needless to say, the stain solution dried on the pants and now there’s a huge stain. The original stain is no where in sight. My husband is arguing with me about the benefits of the stain SOLUTION vs. the stain BAR. Do I need an education or a new husband? ”
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Regarding stain treatment products, I am somewhat agnostic about what you use. Shout, Zout, Resolve—you name it, I’ve tried it. Stick with whatever you like. These days, I’m a laundry product minimalist, relying on just my regular detergent and an oxygen brightener.

If I’m working with a durable natural fiber like cotton, linen, or hemp, I’ll sometimes prepare a bath of detergent and oxygen bleach, like OxiClean or Meliora’s Oxygen Brightener, and soak the garment overnight or even up to 24 hours. To do this, I fully dissolve a generous scoop of the oxygen bleach in hot water in a wash tub, add the liquid detergent, and fill the tub the rest of the way with cool water.

In my experience, soaking, treating, gently scrubbing, laundering, and sometimes doing that all over again can get almost anything out. Re-laundering might seem futile, but in my experience, a second or even third consecutive washing can be what finally gets that turmeric off your favorite napkin.

Time is also of importance when you are trying to get whites white. A long luxurious soak in a bath of hot water and oxygen brightener followed by a thorough wash is way more effective than a single laundry cycle. If you’re feeling ambitious, TikTok-famous laundry stripping is, at its core, a slow stain-removal process.

Whatever method you chose, always finish by laundering the garment to remove residues of both the stain and the detergent. And always, always, air-dry on a rack! Once something has gone in the dryer, the heat will set the stain. Finally, if you find that even patience cannot get your stain to budge, consider Mendelson’s sage advice, “In dealing with stains, the most important skill you can acquire is the ability not to be bothered by small imperfections you cannot fix.”

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Laura Fenton is the No Space Too Small columnist at Food52. The author of The Little Book of Living Small, she covers home, design, and sustainability. Laura lives in Jackson Heights, Queens in a 690-square foot apartment with her husband and son. You can follow her on Instagram @laura.alice.fenton or subscribe to her newsletter Living Small.

10 Comments

wendyusa August 29, 2022
The best of the best is Just Good old Sunshine! Red wine, spaghetti sauce, blood stains. I fortunately live in FLA and put my sheets out every week to keep them white. All my flour sack dish towels for drying and cleanups go out as well. Anything white gets the sun and never the drier. The stains I have yet to figure out is removing mold when it happens.
 
Chad C. May 12, 2022
My wife had a blood stain on a shirt her sister had given her. When she told me she was afraid she'd have to throw it away, I told her to give me a shot at removing the stain. My wife thought it was impossible because the shirt had been through a wash and dry cycle.

I applied a little Carbona blood stain treatment to the stain and let it sit. After eight hours some of the stain had come up, so I applied more stain treatment and waited some more. After sixteen hours, no more stain.

My wife was amazed and, frankly, so was I!
 
[email protected] March 18, 2022
My husband got a breakfast burrito stain on a pair of work pants. I used cold water, a Laundress stain bar and a soft toothbrush to try and remove it. The stain was the size of half a nickel. It looked like it was removed to me so I dried the pants in the dryer. He insisted that the stain was still there after that. So he poured The Laundress Stain Solution (not the bar) all over it and scrubbed about an area of 6 inches over and around the (nonexistent) stain, with a scrub brush and told me not to touch it. So, needless to say, the stain solution dried on the pants and now there’s a huge stain. The original stain is no where in sight. My husband is arguing with me about the benefits of the stain SOLUTION vs. the stain BAR. Do I need an education or a new husband?
 
Nancyc101757 March 18, 2022
I’ve gotten stains out of white dish towels that had food stains in them. I really believe in the book, Laundry Love by Patric Richardson. He’s amazing. He has worked with fabrics all of his life.
 
Nancyc101757 March 17, 2022
I have found everything I need from the book Laundry Love by Patric Richardson. He also has a shop in The Mall of America in Minnesota and holds laundry camps.
 
Nancyc101757 March 17, 2022
I first heard him on a local radio show and then I bought the book for everyone I know.
 
Laura F. March 18, 2022
I've never read this book! Thank you for sharing it.
 
AlwaysLookin March 17, 2022
You're right, Stains don't always come out on the first try. But my suggestion is try Tech Stain Remover, it works better than anything I've used in 45 years. Techcleaners.com
 
AlwaysLookin March 17, 2022
And no, I have no financial interest in this Product.
 
Laura F. March 18, 2022
Thanks for the product recommendation: We'll have to check it out!