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Shortrib
May 15, 2016
I work hard (!) to find recipes and compose meals I can make from scratch in 35-45 mins. Maybe if I didn't love food so much, or if my hubbie didn't appreciate it, I wouldn't do it. But I hate to imagine a life without a yummy shared meal at the end of the day. Give me fast and delicious a la Nigel Slater and Jill Dupleix. It can be done!
Zelda
May 14, 2016
And it's not unusual in countries like Spain to have a late dinner, once all family members are home, activities out of the way.
Zelda
May 14, 2016
Something's got to give if parents work till late. We often ate (with kids) at 9, 10pm. They got used to it.
Diari
May 14, 2016
This is a very interesting topic that is somewhat bittersweet for me. My boyfriend and I live together and I cook our meals. I also work as a chef in a very busy fine dining restaurant which means loooooooong nights. I'm not sure if it's my love for food or my love for my "man" that makes me feel super guilty when I'm unable to cook for us. Even though it's just us two, enjoying a meal at our table, together, feels right. Sometimes he sits across from me munching on something good and just smiles. Other times we sit side by side and l listen to him "mmmm" as he enjoys something special that I l've made us. I'm not totally sure if I'm in love with our "family" meal or with him :) but there's something magical about eating with another person. It's a connection that transcends time...cavewomen and cavemen enjoying a sabertooth steak with the kiddies...that kind of nostalgia lol :)
AntoniaJames
May 13, 2016
Well, I'm a bit of an evangelist for planning as a way to overcome the difficulty of putting a meal on the table at the end of a long work day (and mine are usually "long" and have been for 30+ years). I've added a lot of suggestions on that over the years here whenever the opportunity has presented itself.
Given the really nasty criticism to which I've been subjected here lately when posting comments (always in the spirit of trying to be helpful) let me just mention this: I am aware of at least one very difficult divorce, involving kids of course, in which one of the parties (the husband) strongly believed that the marriage would not have come unglued had the wife (who did not work outside the home) cooked meals for the family to enjoy at home in the evening. She was one of those people who enjoys telling the world that she doesn't cook, but instead, "I make reservations" and occasionally orders carryout; the entire family almost never ate together. How sad. ;o)
Given the really nasty criticism to which I've been subjected here lately when posting comments (always in the spirit of trying to be helpful) let me just mention this: I am aware of at least one very difficult divorce, involving kids of course, in which one of the parties (the husband) strongly believed that the marriage would not have come unglued had the wife (who did not work outside the home) cooked meals for the family to enjoy at home in the evening. She was one of those people who enjoys telling the world that she doesn't cook, but instead, "I make reservations" and occasionally orders carryout; the entire family almost never ate together. How sad. ;o)
Diari
May 14, 2016
Let me just say that when I see your name in the comments section I read every word. I love and respect your outlook on life and food (even if my own differs from yours) and hope that "nasty criticisms" don't deter you from commenting. You're appreciated :)
Zelda
May 14, 2016
"(the husband) strongly believed that the marriage would not have come unglued had the wife (who did not work outside the home) cooked meals for the family to enjoy at home in the evening. "
Sounds a bit one sided to me. But, yes, sad.
Sounds a bit one sided to me. But, yes, sad.
luvcookbooks
May 14, 2016
Missed some critical comments, AJ, but want to add that I love and appreciate your comments and recipes.
Rachel
May 14, 2016
antonia, i saw some of the criticism you mentioned but no need to qualify your statements and advice with that unfortunate fact. I enjoy reading your comments/advice and many others in the forum do too, so don't take the criticism to heart. <3
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