Over the years, we’ve traveled around the world with Anthony Bourdain: as he wrote tell-all books, filmed A Cook’s Tour, and moved on to No Reservations and Parts Unknown after that, changing the face of travel and food writing in the process. His work is poignant, funny, enlightening, and yet so familiar, embracing the common threads among people, despite our superficial differences. That closeness he evoked, the willingness to share himself, was always there—we felt like he was sitting right next to us, chatting candidly, no matter what faraway place he was exploring that week.
So thank you, Tony. Our team and community honor you as someone who inspired us to be a little more curious, empathetic, intrepid. Here, we celebrate the thoughtfulness and joy you’ve brought to our lives:
When I first visited Vietnam about ten years ago, Amanda passed along some of Tony's food recommendations that he'd shared with her a couple years before. I took this as a personal challenge and visited as many of them as I could while I was there. My last day in Vietnam, determined to try what Tony had pronounced to be the very best bun cha in the world, I perched at a tiny table at Bun Cha Huong Lien, surrounded by Hanoi locals, and gobbled down a bowl of delicious noodles, salty grilled pork, and fresh herbs in ten minutes flat. I barely took a breath. The following morning I awoke with the chills and a terrible stomachache. Over the next 24 hours, I paid a steep price for that near-perfect food experience, but I wouldn't hesitate to do it again.
Used to frequently go to Brasserie Les Halles back in the day when he was cooking there. He was always authentic, and a damn good cook to boot. I especially loved Parts Unknown because with all the balderdash that's been going on in our country the past several years, he reminded me that there are indeed people out there who really care about the world we live in and the people in it. It gave me hope. I'll be cooking from his recipes while I process this…
It goes without saying: If you want to be a chef, read Anthony Bourdain. If you want to be a food writer, read Anthony Bourdain. His books are invaluable to this field. But beyond his words, beyond his TV shows, something else meant even more to me: the way he stepped up, in recent years, to become an ally to the #MeToo movement. Few of his male colleagues did the same. Amid their silence, he proudly proclaimed: "In these current circumstances, one must pick a side. I stand unhesitatingly and unwaveringly with the women." I hope he knew how much that meant to women working in kitchens, like me.
Such sad news. Anthony was one of a kind with his adventurousness and boldness. He took chances, explored the unknown with such ease. I admired him for all of it.
I’m curious how many people at Food52 traveled and ate somewhere they wouldn’t normally have if it wasn’t for Anthony Bourdain. And as a result, he contributed so much to so many people around the world.
What I got from Tony was never something as formulaic as the instructions to make ____ dish like a typical recipe. It was about traveling the world and using food as a commonality to connect with other human beings. Others might recognize the enormity of the loss of this great narrative, storytelling voice. But the American food industry has suffered a tremendous loss, because Bourdain did not focus on the mechanics of making a particular dish but instead wanted to connect to the people and culture who made them. Not so sure if there's any active American food writer who does this. As far as I can tell, this is the end of an era.
Chef, you famously described the taste of halo-halo, our signature Filipino dessert consisting of red beans, white beans, chickpeas, Jell-O, coconut, shaved ice, and leche flan, as follows: “It makes no goddamn sense at all.” My exact feelings on your sad passing, Mr. Bourdain. Thank you for expanding my palate and horizons in equal measure. You are already missed.
So crushed. I lapped up every single episode of whatever show he was in, wanting to go wherever he went (where he always championed for the little guy, especially immigrant groups). I admired his lack of pretense, democratization of good non-fine dining food (seafood broth, noodles, tubed meat), and humility. His big heart (and loud bark) will be missed.
I was a line cook in NJ/NY. Kitchen Confidential was written by one of us, about us. It was the book I used to tell parents to read when they said their child wanted to be a “chef.” Through the years, he kept me connected to the past. He inspired me to travel, to keep an open mind and an open palate.
Anthony opened my eyes and opened my heart. I remember the summer down the shore after I read his books and my family would tease me saying, “We get it—stop talking about Anthony Bourdain!” Little did they know, soon they, too, would be captivated by Anthony on Parts Unknown. There was a quote, I think from Medium Raw, that Anthony said at a time where he faced adversity—and it has always stuck with me. It's not the most eloquent thing he's ever said, but I always keep it in the back of my head: “I’m not going to tell you here’s how to live your life. I’m just saying, I guess, that I got very lucky. And luck is not a business model.”
His ability to suck up the marrow of life, to speak from his gut, to empathize with all his heart and to connect with people and cultures in the far corners of the world earned my respect and admiration. The man cooked, looked, wrote, spoke and lived as only a true rock star could. I hope he is finally at peace. My world is a little less without him in it.
"In a cook's life, Thanksgiving Day is for others; the next day is for you." He wrote that in Food & Wine a couple years ago. I loved picturing him on that one day of the year, not traveling or being fawned over for a selfie, but instead just cooking for his family.
Kitchen Confidential probably saved me years of grief. His firm advice to all of us who ever wanted to open a restaurant for any reason—he shot them all down with facts, figures and humor. I will miss him immensely.
I, like many, watched every show he made. Anytime I planned a trip, I made sure that Anthony had been there before. If he hadn’t, I would always wonder, why not? He inspired the location of my honeymoon, San Sebastián. I’m not a religious person, but when I found out about San Sebastián through Bourdain, I knew that I’d visit, and that it would be the closest thing I’d get to a pilgrimage. He ate at the very best restaurants in the world there but also told the story of the small cafes and bars that serve some of the best pintxos. I’ll never forget that trip.
I bought Kitchen Confidential out of curiosity at a bookstore in Mumbai in 2002. He taught me to proudly embrace the comfort foods of childhood: ingredients, techniques, tools, and traditions. He taught me that food has the power to unify. He helped me shatter any inhibitions with respect to culinary boundaries, inculcating respect and complete acceptance for food from all over the world in an almost spiritual sense. Rest in peace.
Anthony Bourdain was one of the first to teach me to taste food with every sense; to value and respect all the hands that had touched what I was getting ready to eat, whether it was from a street cart, a gourmet restaurant, or my own kitchen; and to reach and risk with my own cooking skills. I read his books and watched him travel the world and admired him as a man of authentic heart who lived fully into his vocation with food and people. Peace to you, brother. I will always be grateful for your gifts.
Anthony Bourdain’s searing insight and general badassery made him a true original—and made for endlessly watchable television and books I could read over and over again. But it's his curiosity and respect for every subject, big or small, "worthy" or "unworthy," that I'll always take with me. I never personally knew him, but it still feels like I've lost a friend. It's heartbreaking that his story ended the way it did. I just hope we can all take what he gave us and make something he'd be proud of.
These remembrances have been edited and condensed for clarity.
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