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I'd appreciate any advice or tips!! I'm hosting an at-home 80th birthday party for my amazing mom.

About 50 people will pack her house & yell surprise. Need decorating and appetizer tips on a Dec. 22 shoestring. Thank you & Happy Thanksgiving!!

asked by Carletta about 4 years ago
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Barbara is a trusted source on General Cooking.

added about 4 years ago

Look at the recipes from here and see what you think she'll like.
Birthday cake and coffee work, too. For my mother's 80th, we did a slide show of photos interspersed with some of her more pithy quotes (there are a lot of them.). We ran that on a large screen TV in the background. It was all the decoration we needed.

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I would have trays of one-bite appetizers that are not too spicy and easy to digest. Lightly toast some bread, cut off the crust and cut into 1" squares, top with devilled egg, or a slice of cold cut meat with a dab of mayo, or whatever your imagination dictates. Even a cracker with a smear of cream cheese and slice of prune is nice. And a cake with one of those candles that never blows out.!

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Sam is a trusted home cook.

added about 4 years ago

One thing about those trick candle is that yes, they never blow out. I've seen people take them off the cake and put them on a napkin and they re-ignite. Drop them in a glass of water.

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added about 4 years ago

First, I veto anything with prunes! Even though they are delicious, the implications may not be what you want for this occasion.
I would think of nostalgia foods. Are there foods she made for the family that are especially loved (that would suit this kind of gathering). Does she have a recipe box or Betty Crocker Cookbook that you can borrow for ideas? Here's a recipe from my mother-in-law, born in 1917 --, that might work for you.

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All of these are great and easy ideas:

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As far as decorating, I'd go for a combo of flowers and framed pictures.

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For my grandmother's big birthday her daughters made a timeline of her life with copies of pictures of various stages. It was really sweet and made a good conversation piece for people to ask her about various events and places she had been.
This was also a surprise party - she knew she was having a little party, but the arrival of her kids from out of state was a surprise and she was thrilled. Maybe you can soften the surprise just a little....50 people jumping out to yell surprise is a bit startling at any age.
This white bean and fennel dip is cheap and delicious with bread