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Andrea B.
April 27, 2023
My mom taught me that fresh, simple food is the best and using the best ingredients you can find and afford is key to a delicious meal. She is a master at whipping up delicious French and Italian cuisine. I still marvel at how confident she is in the kitchen. Also, her salad dressing is only a few ingredients but it is absolute magic in her hands. I have come close but never get it quite right. I think it must be the confidence that makes all the difference.
chimera
April 26, 2023
I love all of these tips and reading through the comments. My grandmother taught me to cook and enjoy food - she introduced me to goat cheese at age 9 and I fell in love with it (and all things stinky or strong cheese-related), even though I was horrified to try it. I thought it would taste like a goat! Lol She taught me to be open minded and try a bite of everything. And how to measure flour correctly, and not to over-beat dough when baking, and to always lick the beaters after making cake or cookie batter, raw eggs be damned! She taught me at the ripe age of 5 how to inject strawberries with Grand Marnier with a needle before dipping in chocolate. Everything I do in the kitchen somehow relates back to her and how she taught me, and it’s when I feel closest to her. I have her hand-written recipes framed and up on my kitchen walls so I can always have her on the kitchen with me.
Dale M.
April 26, 2023
I used to have to stand beside Mom or Grandma to get a recipe because neither ever used a any kind of measuring device. I find I now cook the same way, from instinct. I try to write things down for the kids but I tell them taste as you go and you can't go wrong. I know people say cooking is a science but I can out cook anyone I know. I'm in my 70's and still cook by taste, feel and the way it looks.
Bambi.grundwerg
April 26, 2023
Moms advice, which I passed on to my grown sons (who both bake!)….for baked goods-once you can smell what’s in the oven-it’s time to check on it…regardless of how many minutes are left on a timer! Give it a sniff, a poke, and rotate racks if needed!
Ruth
April 26, 2023
As a kid, I would have said that Mom's advice was, "always give the kids a carrot before you start cooking, and shoo them out of the kitchen!" And I would have been right!
Now I think that what I inherited from her was her excitement about new flavors and techniques. Thanks, Mom. Miss you!
Now I think that what I inherited from her was her excitement about new flavors and techniques. Thanks, Mom. Miss you!
Steven W.
May 2, 2020
In the 1960's rural CT. (there was and still are a few places here!)my mother had to make for a crowd and on the cheap. And a very "clipped it from Good Housekeeping magazine" cook---lots of casseroles of noodles or rice or potatoes. Hamburger, or kielbasa, or tuna. LOTS of cream of whatever soups. (I still want that kind of food regularly, I mean it was so good!) So I learned to cook from others around me and as I made my way in the food service industry. I taught son and daughter to cook, and I know LOT of dad's who can do more than grill steaks. How about an article featuring what we learned from our dads?
judy
June 5, 2019
Best tip I got from my Mom was same as Frugal Cat. If you don't like my cooking, then cook it yourself. that began a short journey to becoming the family dinner cook. Mom truly could not cook, dad bar-b-q'd steak and did big dinner parties. The rest fo the week was mine. By the time I ws 8 I was expected to cook dinner 5 of 7 nights a week, as I was pretty good. Now I am 64, love to cook and my pantry and fridge are full of spices from all over the world!
FrugalCat
June 4, 2019
The best cooking advice my mom ever gave me was "If you don't like the way I cook, feel free to make your own dinner." This turned me into a competent home cook as a teenager.
Valerie
May 12, 2019
I think some people (especially Southerners) don't remember life before the Instant Pot. Many people kept food out all the time and did not die. They did not have refrigeration so they managed the best they could. Soups and beans were kept on the back burner (or the back of a wood stove at a constant low heat usually). Biscuits were kept in the bread warmer on top of the wood stove or under a cloth (so the flies would not get them). Picnics were full of things like potato salad (mayo) and eggs....mayo again. Remember, the mayo was made with....RAW egg!!!! Meat was often overcooked which sort of made it similar to jerky. Of course, meat did not usually last too long because there was not as much of it served. I sometimes think ladies today forget how their mothers survived and for that matter, how their grandmothers survived BEFORE!
Sandy S.
May 12, 2019
No, I don't agree with Eric's mom. Bacteria may be killed but if there are toxins (chemicals) from the food left out, they will not be destroyed by heat. This practice is not consistent with current food science. Cool down foods and refrigerate within 2 hours for food safety. As a Master Food Preserver we say, "when in doubt, throw it out".
Beth D.
May 12, 2019
My mother and I live on opposite sides of the country at the moment, which is hard at times. Whenever we get a chance to visit, the first thing we always do is go to the grocery store or farmers market and start dreaming up the meals that we want t ok make together, inspired by ingredients that look good and fresh. With this, I will never forget the advice that we always manage to ignore when we are together - "never go grocery shopping on an empty stomach!"
patricia G.
May 12, 2019
Simplicity was among the valuable lessons my mother taught me. A meal doesn't have to be complicated to be shared with pleasure. A soft boiled egg with toast soldiers. An artichoke with a side of mayo, green with chopped herbs. A panful of garlicky sauteed mushrooms. Lovely meals, Mum.
Dawn C.
May 11, 2019
My Mom was a GREAT cook! Not fancy, but her meals were always delicious.
She always said "If you can read, you can cook." She wasn't wrong.
A bit of advice. Get all of your favorite recipes from your Mommy committed to whatever medium you choose, so you can recreate them after she is gone.
She always said "If you can read, you can cook." She wasn't wrong.
A bit of advice. Get all of your favorite recipes from your Mommy committed to whatever medium you choose, so you can recreate them after she is gone.
Dana E.
May 13, 2019
My mom is the same way Dawn! She loves to take recipes from cookbooks, the internet, etc. and change them up. She has a box full of her mother's recipe cards (handwritten) that she still uses all the time. I'm slowly re-writing them on my own cards.
Michele K.
May 8, 2019
No! Do not leave the soup out. You cannot boil it long enough to kill bacteria
Amy
May 8, 2019
Is Amanda Hesser by any chance related to Judy Hesser (of the Judy Hesser's Oven Fried Chicken fame???) If so, please pass along that I LOVE that recipe - it's become my new standard and I've been adapting it freely (I've added different spices to the flour/shake, and I cut little potatoes in half and put them cut side down in the roasting pan while the chicken baked - that was the only way I can imagine this wonderful recipe being any better, with an easy baked-in side dish!). Yum!!!!
Char D.
May 8, 2019
My Mom would tell me "it's not a failure, it's a learning opportunity" when I'd goof up. Thanks to her, I was putting full meals on the table once a week by the age of 11 - except that I'd forget about the coffee since I didn't drink it back then. ~ I clean as I go if the flow of the recipe allows it. I had to do it when I was growing up since our kitchen had little counter space in for working. ~ Love the "order Thai" remark!
Cindy
May 8, 2019
Nothing makes me happier than my grown kids calling me to ask a food question:) I was a very basic cook, made 100's of mistakes and learned as they grew up. But with the advent of the internet I learned a great deal and still am! And although they have that resource to lean on, they call mom:) And that is the greatest gift to me!
April
May 8, 2019
My mom hated cooking and wasn’t great at it. I grew up with jar spaghetti, shake ‘n’ bake chicken, and over or undercooked meat. Mom told me to marry someone who could cook 😆, which did not happen. I learned to cook because I love to eat. Now, I get to cook for my mom and she is amazed at the skills I’ve acquired. One of the best pieces of advice I’ve picked up is buy the best ingredients you can afford. I love my mom dearly. Cheers to all the moms who did and are doing their best!
jpriddy
April 26, 2023
My mom was a good cook and could bake bread or angel food cake or enchiladas, but still hated to cook, so her favorites meals were white (instant mashed potatoes), green (frozen peas), and brown (hamburger patties). She encouraged me to "read the recipe." I love cooking.
Jackie D.
May 8, 2019
My Mom, God bless her soul, taught me never to throw food away, only, of courese had it gone bad. But that should never happen to a good cook..always make way with what you've got in the fridge or pantry, let your creativity run wild and CREATE, COOK, EAT and ENJOY!!!
lisa D.
May 8, 2019
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Every childs first teacher is mom, kids most of all spend with our mama, We all love our moms food and recipes, And Erin your recipes quit similar to my moms recipe and this is my favrite dish.
https://www.webtoolsoffers.com/
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