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We’re Settling It: When's the Right Time to Decorate for the Holidays?
We've got some passionate opinions on the topic.
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jpriddy
October 24, 2022
My husband and I are the "other" grandparents for our three grandchildren—the grandparents who now live further away and are not the mothers' parents. After negotiation, we get them with us for Twelfth Night, and so the key is not when we put decorations up, but that the holiday must last till after that early January date. We vote for no earlier than December to put up decorations. [On the other hand, a white, bare-branches tree decorated with nacre shells we've found stays up all year.]
ChristmasTrucker48
November 20, 2021
NOW!!! Lol I put mine up beginning of the week. They way I see it is the time it takes getting them down from the loft, putting them all up is time consuming. Before you know it your taking them down again. So for me second week of November is the perfect time. Then I take them down day after New Year’s Day.
JenGirlCooks
November 11, 2021
This is a sensitive subject indeed! I recall as a kid my grandmother getting out her fake tree & ornaments after dinner one Thanksgiving. Plus sometimes she'd take it all down the day after Christmas. I wasn't having it & think I cried or had a fit because Fall & Winter are precious & IMHO each deserve their time.
Personally, I love Fall & Thanksgiving equally as much as Winter Holidays so each get their own full month of decorating. Fall decor can begin in October with Halloween & then once December 1st or the first full weekend arrives I will switch to Winter holiday decorating. That stays up mostly until weekend after New Years. (dry tree etc may go away early as I often would travel & adjust decor accordingly)
Personally, I love Fall & Thanksgiving equally as much as Winter Holidays so each get their own full month of decorating. Fall decor can begin in October with Halloween & then once December 1st or the first full weekend arrives I will switch to Winter holiday decorating. That stays up mostly until weekend after New Years. (dry tree etc may go away early as I often would travel & adjust decor accordingly)
CherylG
November 9, 2021
Ever since I can remember, we decorated Thanksgiving night and took them down after New Year's Day. Last year I struggled with decorating at all since I lost my Dad right before Halloween and my mom 13 months prior.
DBERNE
November 16, 2021
I’m so sorry for your losses so close together. My wife passed away last year. She always grumbled about decorating and even though (or maybe because?) I did not grow up in a Christian family, I’ve always loved the decked out look. So I would put the trees and decorations the weekend after thanksgiving, and take it down the weekend after New Years at the latest. Last year, right after thanksgiving,she was diagnosed with terminal cancer, and my motivation was low, until she told me in the hospital that she actually loved the decorations, just hated the process of decorating. So when got home from seeing her, I put up all the decorations so her last few weeks at home were still surrounded by trees, lights, and general Christmas stuff. This will be the first holiday without her, but I will try to still honor her memory of past years by putting some of things out after Thanksgiving.
CherylG
November 16, 2021
Cancer is a horrible thing... Both of my parents and my older brother passed from it as well as several uncles. I was Mom's and Dad's caregiver as well as my Uncle's (alongside my Mother who was a retired nurse). My sister was going to sell Dad's Christmas tree, but I couldn't bear it Togo to someone outside of the family, so I claimed it. This will be the first year I've put it up. There will be tears, but my folks were like your wife... They decorated in a huge way, so this is my way of honoring them. Bless you during this season.
hunterl2
November 9, 2021
We are a "decorate after Thanksgiving" family however I think we all would be just fine decorating before. We love all things holiday but somehow the unspoken rules of decorating after keeps us from going all out before. We do however take in lots of Christmas music prior to and I spend quite a bit of November crafting for Christmas. It builds the anticipation I guess!
Terry M.
November 8, 2021
We no longer have a big family/friends Christmas at our home, but we do host Thanksgiving for the extended family, so we decorate for that. When we were younger, we had a big gathering of friends during the Christmas season (for 20+ years!) but when that ended, decorating after Thanksgiving meant it was only for us....so we moved it forward.
Kelly M.
November 8, 2021
We decorated yesterday (November 7). It's been a rough 2 years between the general state of the world (COVID) and deaths in our family, so my husband and I agreed we needed a bit of extra cheer. We don't host either Thanksgiving or Christmas, so it's just for us. Plus, Christmas is just the best time of year and we always used to try to cram in as much as possible into December (drinking Christmas drinks, watching Christmas movies, baking gingerbread, listening to Christmas music, etc.). Now, we just give ourselves some grace and do all of the Christmas-related things for most of November and all of December.
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