Hi! Im doing an anniversary party with 2 other co-hosts and the food is Italian themed. Its a favorite of the couple, who also happen to be lactose intolerant:) Pills can be popped to help with that, but Id like to not have cheese overload. Im thinking a good authentic bolognese sauce and spaghetti, a good salad and homemade crusty bread. Any other ideas are welcome including thoughts on make ahead appetizers and dessert or cake flavors (the couple doesnt like chocolate as a primary flavor).