I am looking for a firands pan? Basically an oval cupcake/muffin pan.

Go for the Amazon silicone friands mold.

Here's a silicone one on Amazon
http://www.amazon.com/World-Cuisine-Non-Stick-Silicone-Mold/dp/B001AS0434/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=home-garden&qid=1309232891&sr=8-1

Since an ebelskiver pan is round, if that's what you are going for just use a regular muffin pan.

If you Google "friand pan" you will find several places to purchase them but they seem to mostly be in Australia.

Maybe something like
an ableskiver pan? http://www.williams-sonoma.com/products/ebelskiver-filled-pancake-pan/

I think the proper spelling is Friands. I remember seeing these:
http://www.amazon.com/Paderno-World-Cuisine-Non-Stick-Aspic/dp/B001EV3R1S/ref=sr_1_32?s=home-garden&ie=UTF8&qid=1309228615&sr=1-32
they are individual, which makes them easier to store in my opinion.

Fat Daddio's is a fantastic source!

I belive it is french. Silicone would work!

Will silicone work for you?

http://www.fatdaddios.com/catalog/oval-2

Is that the correct spelling? What language is it?